Q. I have a cousin,who is lot more than a cousin to me.I
love him a lot and want to marry him as soon as possible.I have a very
strong feeling that he likes me too,but he is very egoistic.He won`t go
beyond his ego to propose me.What do I do?I just can`t stop thinking
about him.
Answer:
We understand how it feels like when you are
strongly attracted to somebody and this is what is happening to you as
of now. Love has to be no reasons but it has to be liberating. If the
need is equal from both the sides, then there are no questions like ego
and proposing. You want him very badly but maybe he does not want you as
much as you want him. That’s the reason that he has these
apprehensions. It is normal for people to have utmost confidence which
we call ego but when we need something, we leave behind our egos.
So, if
he really needs you, he will put aside his ego and will care for you
and respect you. Just observe, in relationships where he needs people
and he really cares and gives importance to those people, you can find
no ego at all. You will find him respecting and taking care of them.
Now, you can ask yourself whether he loves you or not. In case, you find
the answer as ‘YES’, then you can go for this relationship. Otherwise,
observe your urge and make the right decision. So, I recommend you to
give time and then, see how you feel about things in life.
Take Care And God Bless You!!
Relationship Expert
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