I am a thirty one year old woman and my husband has been cheating on me for over an year.All through the past one year we have had huge fights and reconciliations but every time he goes back to her .Last year i was even going to a psychiatrist but i gave up midway. Now I Feel emotionally drained.Just can't help feeling sorry for myself when he has dinner with her and i sit at home eating all alone ...
How do i get out of this rut.I feel unwanted and unloved. My confidence has taken a beating and there are days when i just want to snuggle in the bed and never come out .
I know this looks like a rant of a woman who is feeling sorry for herself but i do want to get out ...Please tell me how to get life back to normal again ...thanks in advance.
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Hi !!!
I can
understand your situation and know how difficult it must be to cope with
all this. But at the same time I am glad that you really want to work
to come out of it. I appreciate your will power and determination to
come out of these emotions. We need to work on the resistance or the
blockage which is not allowing you to be happy and peaceful.
For this, you need to reflect as to what you want out of this relationship now. Because now it has started impacting your emotional and mental well- being. And if you move forward in the same manner then you need to imagine where will you reach in your life.Once this awareness will come then you will be clear as to what path you have to choose which will lead you to be happy in life.
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